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Dinners with Ruth : a memoir on the power of friendships  Cover Image Book Book

Dinners with Ruth : a memoir on the power of friendships / Nina Totenberg.

Totenberg, Nina, (author.).

Summary:

"Celebrated NPR correspondent Nina Totenberg delivers an extraordinary memoir of her personal successes, struggles, and life-affirming relationships, including her remarkable friendship of nearly fifty years with Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg. Four years before Nina Totenberg started working at NPR, where she cemented her legacy as a prize-winning reporter, and nearly twenty-two years before Ruth Bader Ginsburg was appointed to the Supreme Court, Nina called Ruth. A reporter for The National Observer, Nina was curious about Ruth's legal brief, asking the Supreme Court to do something revolutionary: declare a law that discriminated "on the basis of sex" to be unconstitutional. In a time when women were fired for becoming pregnant and often could not apply for credit cards or get a mortgage, Ruth patiently explained her argument. That call launched a nearly fifty-year friendship. Dinners with Ruth is an extraordinary account of two women who paved the way for future generations by tearing down professional and legal barriers. It is also an intimate memoir of the power of friendships as women began to pry open career doors and transform the workplace. At the story's heart is one, special relationship: Ruth and Nina saw each other not only through personal joys, but also illness, loss, and widowhood. Ruth drew Nina out of grief during the devastating illness and eventual death of Nina's first husband; twelve years later, Nina would reciprocate when Ruth's beloved husband died. They shared a love of opera and shopping, as they instinctively understood that clothes were armor for women who wanted to be taken seriously in a workplace dominated by men. During Ruth's last year, they shared so many small dinners that Saturdays were "reserved for Ruth" in Nina's house. Dinners with Ruth also weaves together personal portraits of other fascinating women and men from Nina's life, including her cherished NPR colleagues Cokie Roberts and Linda Wertheimer; her beloved husbands; her friendships with multiple Supreme Court Justices, including Lewis Powell, William Brennan, and Antonin Scalia, and Nina's own family--her father, the legendary violinist Roman Totenberg, and her "best friends," her sisters. Inspiring and revelatory, Dinners with Ruth is a moving story of the joy of friendship" -- Provided by publisher.

Record details

  • ISBN: 9781982188085
  • ISBN: 1982188081
  • Physical Description: xiii, 304 pages, 16 unnumbered pages of plates : illustrations ; 22 cm
  • Edition: First Simon & Schuster hardcover edition.
  • Publisher: New York : Simon & Schuster, 2022.

Content descriptions

Bibliography, etc. Note:
Includes bibliographical references (pages 281-288) and index.
Formatted Contents Note:
Prologue: Bouillabaisse for Ruth -- The first stirrings of friendship -- Making friends and a few enemies -- Unexpected friends -- Friends and love -- Friends in need -- Friends of the court -- Supreme friends -- Friends and confidences -- Male friends -- Friends in joy -- Nourishing friendships -- Friendship and hardships -- Fame and friendship -- Friendship is a choice -- Losing friends -- Finding my father's long-lost friend -- Farewell to my friend -- Epilogue.
Subject: Totenberg, Nina > Friends and associates.
Ginsburg, Ruth Bader, 1933-2020 > Friends and associates.
Radio broadcasters > United States > Biography.
Judges > United States > Biography.
Female friendship.
Genre: Autobiographies.
Biographies.

Available copies

  • 21 of 23 copies available at Missouri Evergreen.
  • 1 of 1 copy available at Livingston County. (Show)
  • 1 of 1 copy available at Livingston County Library - Main Library. (Show)

Holds

  • 0 current holds with 23 total copies.
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Location Call Number / Copy Notes Barcode Shelving Location Status Due Date
Livingston County Library - Main Library BIO TOTENBERG (Text) 2601952709 Adult Non-Fiction Available -
Camden County Library District - Camdenton Biography TOTENBERG (Text) 31320003883852 Adult Biography Available -
Cape Girardeau Public Library 920 TOT (Text) 33042004866102 Adult Non-Fiction Available -
Carthage Public Library B Totenberg, Nina (Text) 34MO2001814307 Biography Available -
Cass County Library-Northern Resource Center B TOT 2022 (Text) 0002205404912 Adult Biography Available -
Howard County Public Library BIO/TOT (Text) 34658000237979 Biography Available -
Jefferson County Library-Arnold BIO TOTENBER (Text) 30061100087804 Biography In transit -
Jefferson County Library-Cedar Hill BIO TOTENBER (Text) 30031100087708 Biography Available -
Jefferson County Library-Windsor BIO TOTENBER (Text) 30065100087813 Biography Available -
Lebanon-Laclede County Library 791.4402 Totenberg (Text) 3803815460 Adult Nonfiction Available -


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